Be a new father, s really has much freshness, and has to do many things at the same time. It will not have the experience of this kind of first times: the first day of a father. The feeling is strange and will develop many and many puzzles.

1.      Father is Less Important Than Mother

Is it true? Some people think that mother is important than father. They have met their father seldom. They have the contact with the baby from the beginning of pregnancy. They touch and reach each other every day. The incomparable touching between mother and children is developing the inseparable relationship. How about father? Father is one of the important members of a family, he could shape the perfection of the family, and share the responsibility, give another kinds of love to the children as well as enhance care and love in the children world.

2.     Take Care Mother First

Actually, take care mother, your wife first could show your love, but it's not really suitable. It's not bad to love and take care of your wife, but the problem is the preference. May be you are the first one who to be taken care. If we could not manage our feeling s or emotions, or neglect ourselves intentionally, this could have affected the psychological health. Therefore, put yourself on the first priority, then, tackle your wife. While you could manage your emotion, you could manage the emotion of your wife suitably.

3.     Men Will Never how Take Care of Children

In fact, this myth is broken by the modern father, more intimate than women to take care of their children, but also make the children happy and to live properly; course, not all men have this capability, but, nowadays the gender difference has little interaction and understanding in your child's needs well, basically there will not be much of a mistake, but there are some men still hold traditional conservative corner of a defensive attitude, nature cannot keep up pace with the times.

4.      Heritage Historical Burden

Many people think that the mother's duty is with children , it is "men is going out, the women is inside," so there are still many fathers want their children in order to escape the responsibility, so little regard for their child's life or make teach; However, these outdated ideas often result to get his father to take care of children, and so to marital problems, therefore, the modern father should reject these ideas to help teach kids into, within or from increased parent-child relationship, but also as a father, to find the fun ! You take care of children grow up while you yourself grow up together!

 

Faced with the new roles, men can select multiple approaches to explore different roles, think about what should be, worthy and fit before we do; spend more time viewing or will be the beginning of a father's role and mood, and you can even partner and other novice father share. From the child's contact with him to learn how to replace diapers, bathing, feeding, to integrate themselves into the child's life, in fact, anyone can become a good father, as long as you are willing!