This Year, we all understand pregnancy is not the business of women only. To be a father, our duty would not be started after the baby give birth, but is from the pregnant day that we know. An expectant father will wonder we are not the one of pregnancy, how should we do?

1)Solace Your Wife and Baby

Many expectant fathers afraid of hurting or facing the pregnancy, they would be hurt easily. Actually, caress is an effective and usual method for pregnancy to feel the care. Pregnant is the closest touch, and this is wonderful and irreplaceable feeling that she could feel the life in her body. To be a husband, you have to caress your pregnant wife and she will feel your care and love. Your caressing is a good and healthy sedative, in particularly, her emotion has been swung. Sometimes before sleep, your pillow talk and touch is good to her and the embryo also. They would feel your attentive, and enrich the love of conjugal and parent-child relationship.

2)Communicate to Your Baby

It is a prenatal education method, you could touch the belly of your wife, to feel the heartbeat or movement of your baby, and let the baby to feel the father love. Due to the research, the embryo can hear the voice from outside of womb and give the feedback after 5-6 months, the bass voice as male is the clearest sound that the baby can hear. This kind of touch could develop the better relationship of the parent-child on the following day.

3)Don’t Focus on Official Business

Most of the male are career-oriented, whatever the pregnant wife has to have a body check or other medical activities, they don’t companion with her but the relatives. In fact, women would like her dearest one to be the companion; moreover, if a husband goes to check the embryo together, he will hear the heartbeat and see the movement of the baby. It is the most fantastic thing in the world. To be a forever partner of your wife, your existing is a sort of peace ad bliss for her. A couple is full of supporting from each other if all the things are being worked out together. The relationship of couple and the future of your family will be closer and graceful.

4)Sharing

An expectant father is not a female, to understand what the female’s feeling is the hard job and the pregnant women are harder. At this movement, an expectant father has to caress her belly, and to be a qualify listener. There are a huge of messages have been shared by pregnant wife. The growth of the embryo and the change of daily life, the livelihood, feeling and emotional changing, those are the things she has to share. A husband is the one she would like to share with. May be you don’t or can’t understand where her feeling did come from but never mind because you could help her if you could open your mind and listen to her wholehearted. Indeed, she could receive your messages that you are standing by her. It is triple win game for your future relationship, you and her and the baby.

In the world, most of the things are easy to talk but execution is difficult, this is the same rule to be an expectant father. Comparative to female, male are lack of patient and careful, and also don’t know how to express the internal love. But, to be a responsible and outstanding father, we have to pay to establish whatever a relationship or a family.

A pregnant has to bear a heavy burden on spiritually, physically and psychologically, it is necessary to be take care by her husband. The unity, growth and supporting of the family based on caring, companion and sharing. These are an expectant father has to remember.