Type 2 - ★ Control type mother: Easy to develop the avoidance-type children★
Mothers’ manifestation: Due to the instinctive cherishing for their children, or the fear of being abandoned because of her difficulty in controlling her own life, or too much attachment towards children, some single mothers yearn for the total control of their children, and cannot stand to be away from them for even a few moments.

Mentality of children: This situation can easily create distant children. They are not afraid of intimacy, but at the same time they always turn away their face to avoid the kisses of their mothers, because they fear that being too intimate will make it more difficult for them to escape from their mothers’ control.

The vexation of growth: It is easy for the distant children to develop avoidance personality type after they have grown up. They subconsciously try everything to avoid family life: long hours of work, preference for business trips, or reading or watching television all the time. They need their own space, and like free-of-commitment relationship. If their spouses try to maintain an intimate state, or express further needs, they will withdraw right away, or even get angry, ”How come you always demand endlessly? You are asking for too much!”

Upbringing EQ: Everyone deserves to have his or her own life. Your interdependence with your child is just temporary. If you keep treating your child like your little lover, you will create an invisible shackle for both you and your child.